Author: Lynette

Caring, enough.

“We want to work, But not too hard. We need money, But not so much. We care, But not that much.” This was my mantra, penned some 14 years ago. I was working part time taking on contractual jobs which required me to turn up at the workplace 2 or 3 days a week. I…

Our Narratives

The Holding Space was originally named Family Focus. This was the brain child of Lynette who wanted a formal “brand”  as she worked from home, while being a full time mom.  To maintain her connection with the social service sector, she pioneered in providing family life education in the form of parenting and marital talks…

Change is coming!

On 27 November 2022, the pottery studio on the 4th floor of Waterloo Centre, pulled it’s shutters down in preparation for a major facelift. After the Christmas and New Year festivities, a new facade will be unveiled with TheraClay Studio, sharing the premises with The Holding Space. Going down memory lane, it was in 2020,…

Should I train to be a Sandplay Therapist?

Should I train to be a Sandplay Therapist?

My journey through sandplay training, as a child and family therapist, is somewhat like my relationship with acupuncture. I’ve always avoided acupuncture because of its mystical nature. As I did not understand it, I did not want to try it. Likewise, my approach towards sandplay was similarly guarded because it seemed mystical and I was…

Play and Sand

Play and Sand

This is a Social Worker’s account of her journey towards Sandplay Therapy. “I started out as a Social Worker in 2009, in a Family Service Centre. My work was with families and I often brought toys along and engaged in play with the children when they were present. The children were relaxed at play and…

Personal stories…

Personal stories…

    In 2013, a small group of friends, comprising of social workers, counsellors and art therapists, went on a “Holding and Being Held” retreat in Fraser’s Hill,  Malaysia. Under the care of  facilitator Mrs Eunice Stagg, we molded clay, painted, wrote our journals and enjoyed the refreshing atmosphere at this haven. We returned the…